The Harsh Truth: Why Your Girl Won’t Let You In The Back Door
Our sex advice columnist discusses sex and dating questions
Use lube. You have no idea how sexy male moans are. Start out by using a finger. Go slow. You have to remember that. Use your hands or a sex toy to play with them, so that she has the opportunity to get off, too. Foreplay still matters.
Facebook Twitter Pinterest Instagram. Many men enjoy it, but convincing your girlfriend to have anal sex may be a challenge. So how do you fulfill this fantasy if your partner is against it? First things first: talk it over.
Our editorial content is not influenced by any commissions we receive. In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Ah, anal sex! Once the excitement of oral and standard piping wears off, back-door entry becomes the last item an average dude hopes to check off his sexual to-do list. If you've already awkwardly asked her about it, it may seem like she has no interest, but you're just not approaching it properly.